How to Cope With Your Feelings in an One-Sided Love Relationship

You are in a relationship for some time already but something makes you feel there is only one sided love. It was great at the beginning, you felt that he is in love with you as well.
There were so many things that made you think like that:

• he was texting you just because, he could find some time for you at any part of the day and night, even for a few minutes; you both could enjoyed being out in any kind of weather, no matter is rain or freezing cold;
• he didn't feel tired after his work;
• he seems to be motivated and ambitious in all he did;
• he could kiss you just because... 
• many many other beautiful things...

Then after some months the things changed suddenly, everything from above mentioned disappeared and when you puzzled try to find out what happened you get really shocked by the answer you get (He would just tell you that: :"Sorry, I do not have any feelings for you anymore because I just like variety in women and I cannot stay with the same woman for a long time, I cannot be faithful..." Here also you will hear the traditional: "It is not you, it's me!", so you realize that you just wasted your time, but this is not the worst thing that has happened. The worst thing is that you still have feelings for that person and is not that simple to ignore them.
But let us look at the problem from another point of you, you experienced something beautiful, something that not many people would have the chance to experience nowadays. So, you have nothing to do as to overcome the situation, no matter how difficult it may seems to be. You just have to be strong and just move on. Because there is no reason to stay with a person who would just hurt you any time telling you that he has no feelings for you, even you are the best friends. It is really difficult to be near a person who you love desperately but he looks at you as you were a stranger. There is nothing to do, if there is no any chemistry between you both.

You just should be strong, find some new motivation, concentrate on your goals in your life, spend more time on your hobbies, work on your personality, and simply:

Love Yourself!

You are the only person who really deserve to be loved!

If you have some stories to share, it would be great to discuss them here. I would really love to hear your opinion on this kind of relationship.

Learn How Not To Fall In Love With The Wrong Person, Or How To Protect Yourself From One-Sided Love

If you suffer because of one-sided love, means you’ve fallen in love with the wrong person, something really not worth it. They say love is evil, you never know who are you falling in love with ...  Is it true? Should we be vulnerable to these uncontrolled feelings? Is it really true we cannot do anything and nothing depends on us?  If you feel a tendency of constant disappointment in love, think about who you fall in more carefully… Perhaps the problem lies in the fact that you cannot send your senses to the right direction, to the right person? Then let's talk about who are these "wanted" and "unwanted" people.

• There is a tricky thing in the world, this is passion. It goes wandering around the world looking for shelter. And imagine it finds it and very often. But pleasing the passion is a dangerous thing. If you do not want disappointments, let passion lives somewhere else, not in your heart. Therefore, never turn off the brains in order not to fall into the clutches of unanswered love!

• Unanswered love or one-sided love will avoid you if you learn to how understand people. First of all, determine what qualities you like in a man, and get to know only the people who have important for you qualities. No need to hope that after some dates with the chosen person, he will become more noble, understanding and generous. Better think what if he had changed for the worse,  will you still love him?

• Become a caring person, because people are made in such a way so they consider very important to fulfill their needs. In other words, we need someone to take care of us. Never become closer to a person who cannot take care of you. And do not think that this applies only to men taking care of women. Men also need care, it is just expressed differently.

• Jealousy is the greatest enemy of love, so do not communicate with demanding and jealous people. Try to avoid them. Whatever the feelings are, unbridled jealousy can destroy any pure relationship. Suspicions and accusations have never strengthened any kind of love.

• One-sided love is one of the signals that you have not learned how to choose the right person. Do not annoy yourself and him. Learn how to find a noble way to get out of such situations. Think of what happened as a lesson, as a learning experience. And do not think that the doors of your happiness are shuttled forever. A person who faced such kind of tragedies is able to love with a new power and will be more responsible in future relations.

• The right person is the one with whom you feel always good, under all circumstances, a person who will not judge your weaknesses, that appreciates your abilities, someone who will share the same interests, who can make you feel confident, cared and loved.  The right person is someone who you will always trust and forgive, only because he is yours and you simply love him, and the most important - the feeling is mutual.