If you suffer because of one-sided love, means you’ve fallen
in love with the wrong person, something really not worth it. They say love is
evil, you never know who are you falling in love with ... Is it true? Should we be vulnerable to these uncontrolled
feelings? Is it really true we cannot do anything and nothing depends on us? If you feel a tendency of constant
disappointment in love, think about who you fall in more carefully… Perhaps the
problem lies in the fact that you cannot send your senses to the right
direction, to the right person? Then let's talk about who are these "wanted"
and "unwanted" people.
- There is a tricky thing in the world, this is passion. It goes wandering around the world looking for shelter. And imagine it finds it and very often. But pleasing the passion is a dangerous thing. If you do not want disappointments, let passion lives somewhere else, not in your heart. Therefore, never turn off the brains in order not to fall into the clutches of unanswered love!
- Unanswered love or one-sided love will avoid you if you learn to how understand people. First of all, determine what qualities you like in a man, and get to know only the people who have important for you qualities. No need to hope that after some dates with the chosen person, he will become more noble, understanding and generous. Better think what if he had changed for the worse, will you still love him?
- Become a caring person, because people are made in such a way so they consider very important to fulfill their needs. In other words, we need someone to take care of us. Never become closer to a person who cannot take care of you. And do not think that this applies only to men taking care of women. Men also need care, it is just expressed differently.
- Jealousy is the greatest enemy of love, so do not communicate with demanding and jealous people. Try to avoid them. Whatever the feelings are, unbridled jealousy can destroy any pure relationship. Suspicions and accusations have never strengthened any kind of love.
- One-sided love is one of the signals that you have not learned how to choose the right person. Do not annoy yourself and him. Learn how to find a noble way to get out of such situations. Think of what happened as a lesson, as a learning experience. And do not think that the doors of your happiness are shuttled forever. A person who faced such kind of tragedies is able to love with a new power and will be more responsible in future relations.
- The right person is the one with whom you feel always good, under all circumstances, a person who will not judge your weaknesses, that appreciates your abilities, someone who will share the same interests, who can make you feel confident, cared and loved. The right person is someone who you will always trust and forgive, only because he is yours and you simply love him, and the most important - the feeling is mutual.